6.30.2009

3 Days to Green Days



Adelle & I will be going to our first rock concert together this Friday! (July 3rd). Uncle Jeff will be joining us also. I am very excited to go rock out to great live music with my lil sweetie and best friend.


This is one of the many things I would daydream about when I was a kid; going to a live show with my kids. I could NEVER have attended one with my Dad. He hates that music; calling it "noise". This from a guy who loved Hee-Haw, Lawrence Welk and would crank up the easy listening radio station whenever we were in the car. I joked and called his car an "Otis", which puzzeled him until I explained they make elevators, which play the devils music inside IMHO on the rapid descent to the bottom floor known as HELL.

Shockingly, later in life he said he liked the Beach Boys. I wonder if he'd admit to that today after voting for Bush twice & McCain once? Curiously enough, his name is also "George";




But this isn't about him. It's about me and my daughter having a Great Day @ the Green Day concert in Key Arena on July 3rd, 2009.

ROCK ON GOOD PEOPLE!

6.09.2009

June 9, 1951




I am horrible about sending cards to acknowledge special events. Today is without exception as I realize what took place 58 years ago.


Happy Anniversary Mom and Dad.


Love,


B

Going Commando - Colbert Style

Here's a real American for you; Stephen Colbert. This reminds me of Bob Hope. Stephen's comedy is brilliant. His crew cut was not only funny but also heartwarming as he showed some sacrifice to his audience of service men and women. I laughed heartily. In a very ugly time I find that to be golden.

Enjoy;


The Colbert ReportMon - Thurs 11:30pm / 10:30c
Obama Orders Stephen's Haircut - Ray Odierno
colbertnation.com
Colbert Report Full EpisodesPolitical HumorStephen Colbert in Iraq




Here's a link to the entire show from last night. It makes me proud to be American.



http://www.comedycentral.com/colbertreport/full-episodes/index.jhtml?episodeId=229761

65 Years



This is late, I meant to do this over the weekend. However I have never forgotten about the invasion of Europe. So many sacrifices made so I can sit here at type. So many that we don't know about and probably never will as many of these soldiers never talked about what they went through for decades. Some finally speaking; like Dick Winters, so that we do not forget the significance of this historical event. Thank God they have before leaving this world they protected so well.


I cannot express the gratitude for the sacrifices made during the invasion on June 6th, 1944. The horrors of war presented for all the world to see, for brave soldiers to endure. Before the invasion during training preparations for D-Day at Slapton Sands in England they were attacked by German U Boats. This story never made it out of WWII until over 40 years later. The first time I heard about it was reading Band of Brothers by Stephen Ambrose.


Over 600 men were killed in a horrific scene that many D-Day veterans say it was far worse than the actual invasion where about 200 were killed on Utah Beach on D-Day. One survivor vividly describing the horrific scene with the ungodly screams for help, for Mom, for anyone, coming from flaming ship and water. He has never forgotten, it haunts him every day. Never should we forget about our past. History is who we are. So many of those brave soldiers never spoke about what they went through. Many with family members finding out about their service, awards and deeds after they came home and died decades later.

Far worse than D-Day? That had to be hell on earth.

During Memorial Day I listened to my favorite talk radio - AM 1090. The Thom Hartman show had an open mic for anyone who wanted to call and remember loved ones, friends, family who served our country. One caller in particular related a very personal story.

Her dad was in WWII and recently passed away. Their relationship was not very good and they didn't talk much. He never talked about he service. Going through his things afterwards she found photo's, letters and his Bronze Star, amongst his many accolades from his WWII service. He didn't think was important enough to share with his own family, or maybe he just couldn't pass on the horrors he witnessed. He never said a word.

She tearfully mentioned his name and service - breaking down and stating that she didn't know any of what her father went through. Now she has a different view since discovering a life she didn't know he lived for a time. She was proud of her father and so extremely sorry for her part in their strained relations. Her tribute was priceless, heartwarming and real. It affected me profoundly. So much so that I am sniffling and tearing just relating this. This is the kind of stuff you rarely find in history books. About the foot soldier, not the notable leaders of the day.

Here's a letter from 1st Lt Thomas Meehan 506 PID - E Company Commander - 101st Airborne in 1944 to his "dearest" prior to the invasion of Europe. Words to live by from someone who was there and died when his plane was shot down on D-Day. It sums things up very well;



England 26 May, 1944


Dearest:

Well, I see in the papers that the Anzio Beachhead is no longer that, and that Cassino has fallen. Looks like "we ain't losin'". Looking back at the grim days of '40-'41 and '42, it seems hardly possible that we should have come so far. Those were grim years, and we in the states hardly realized it. Now the shoe is on the other foot, and the war has probably been decided in Europe. Yet, somehow I wonder about the "peace" as all the writers are describing it. I'm afraid I am a pessimist with little faith in the goodwill of mankind. Looking it over, thinking about it brings the realization that any peace will be compromise, not everlasting. I supppose the people, being as they are, have thought and tried world peace for thousands of centuries, but war, like the unwanted cat, comes back.


All we want is our way of life and all the handshaking and backslapping in the world won't change our ideas to conform with the other fellows'. The question is not, "how can we insure a permanent peace", but "how can we have peace for the maximum length of time and still be ourselves, unyieldingly?" The natural, the human, and the inevitable. And so generation after generation has its day of crawling in filth and extracting the life of some other joker that only wanted peace, but a different brand of it.


We're fortunate in being Americans. At least we don't step on the underdog. I wonder if that's because there are no "Americans" -- only a stew of immigrants; or if it's because the earth from which we exist has been so kind to us and our forefathers; or if it's because the "American" is the offspring of the logical European who hated oppression and loved freedom beyond life? Those great mountains and the tall timber; the cool deep lakes and broad rivers; the green valleys and white farmhouses; the air, the sea and wind; the plains and great cities; the smell of living -- all must be the cause of it. And yet, with all that, we can't get away from the rest. For everyone of our millions who has that treasure in his hand there's another million crying for that victory of life. And for each of us who wants to live in happiness and give happiness, there's another different sort of person wanting to take it away.


Those people always manage to have their say, and Mars is always close at hand. We know how to win wars. We must learn now to win peace. Stick our noses in the affairs of the world. Learn politics as well as killing. Make the world accept peace whether they damn well like it or not. Here is the dove, and here is the bayonet. May we never see the day again that "World Peaceways" and like organizations dull our senses and make us anything but realists. If I ever have a son, I don't want him to go through this again, but I want him powerful enough that no one will be fool enough to touch him. He and America should be strong as hell and kind as Christ. That's the only insurance until human nature becomes a tangible thing that can be adjusted and made workable.


Thomas Meehan, III


Thank you, Mr. Meehan and all of the other unnamed, unknown bravehearts who laid your lives on the line for me and my family. Words just can't express....

6.01.2009

Moment of Thanks





Apparently my prayer has been heard.


Either that or the world of technology has been applied correctly.


Adelle is finding friends.


She is a texting crazed teen now that we've recently changed our wireless plan to allow unlimited texts (and a new phone that has a teeny tiny littel keypad). She keeps in touch with class mates better and has been invited out to a couple of movies with friends. She's actually fitting in, finding some success in the social circles of fellow teens.


As a parent I am very relieved. I see the happiness light her eyes.


As a parent I am now worried about the usual trappings that come with having a teen child. And I wonder; will I see her again?

Yet, that's how it goes and I would gladly trade our previous issues with the ones that most families deal with on a daily basis. I don't expect it to be easy but it usually isn't on the best of terms. Being able to fit in and be independent is a great tonic for past suffering.

Thank you God. I will not soon forget and will again I'm sure, need to humbly ask for your strength as we wade into future issues.